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Consent and signals for couples, the course

How to agree on limits, read each other and use stop words and hand signals that both of you trust.

Who this course is for

This course is for couples and for anyone who wants clear, kind communication about sex, especially before trying anything that involves depth or a trainer.

What you learn

  • How to talk about wants and limits before you start
  • Stop words and hand signals that work when speaking is hard
  • Reading body language and checking in
  • Aftercare and talking after a session
  • What consent means when plans change

Course modules

Video lessons with demonstrations open inside your plan after you log in and pass age verification. Text lessons, checklists and practice plans are there from your first day, and your progress bar shows where to resume.

Consent and signals for couples, the course
  1. 1

    Talking before

    • Starting the conversation (Text lesson)
    • Yes, no and maybe list (Checklist)
  2. 2

    Signals during

    • Stop words and hand signals (Video lesson)
    • Check-ins that feel natural (Text lesson)
  3. 3

    Reading each other

    • Body language basics (Text lesson)
    • When to pause (Video lesson)
  4. 4

    After the session

    • Aftercare (Text lesson)
    • Weekly conversation plan (Practice plan PDF)
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Agree on a signal before you begin

During oral sex speaking is often not possible, so a stop word alone is not enough. Agree on a hand signal before you start, for example two taps on the leg means pause and a raised hand means stop now. The partner who receives the signal stops at once, without questions. Consent can change at any moment, and either of you can end the session at any time.

Read stop words and consent in oral sex and see the Couples Practice Program.

Included in these plans

This course is included in Academy Pro and Couples. Academy Pro costs 24 USD per month billed yearly (288 USD per year) or 49 USD monthly. Couples costs 39.50 USD per month billed yearly (474 USD per year) or 79 USD monthly, with 2 linked logins.

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